As a woman navigating the beauty standards of the West, let me tell you: I’ve endured far too many miserable days squeezing into tight shapewear, whether it be jeans, leggings, or shape shorts, all in the name of vanity. Well, I’ve given all that up with a literal sigh of relief—I can finally breathe again.
Today, let’s delve into the often-overlooked dangers and side effects of donning overly tight clothing. It’s a topic I rarely hear discussed, if ever. Tight jeans, shapewear, and leggings designed to suck it all in are ubiquitous. This doesn’t just inflict psychological damage; it takes a toll on our bodies, affecting our digestive systems and breathing.
Now, I must emphasize the connection between the mind and the body. What manifests in the mind reflects in the body, and vice versa. It’s a two-fold issue.
**Psychological Damage**
Let’s begin with the psychological aspect of feeling compelled to smooth our bodies with tight clothes. The belief that we look better when we’re seamlessly zipped up, tucked in, or hidden sets the tone for concealing our true selves. Choosing discomfort to conform to external expectations indicates a lack of self-acceptance and love. It fosters a sense of safety only when hidden, creating psychological pressure and insecurity.
On the flip side, there’s physical damage being done.
**Damage to the Breath**
Breathing is among the most vital functions; the breath is life itself. Ironically, many of us have learned to breathe incorrectly—or perhaps not optimally. When we inhale, our belly should visibly expand, filling and deflating with each breath. Poor posture, anxiety, or tight clothing disrupt this deep belly breath.
Take a moment to assess your breath. Is it deep? Does your belly expand on the inhale and contract on the exhale, or is it the opposite due to engaged core muscles?
**Digestion & Nervous System Damage**
When we restrict our breath, our body enters fight or flight mode, leading to anxiety, uneasiness, and disrupted digestive channels. Tight clothing also hinders digestive function, the foundation of a healthy body and mind. If our food can’t flow freely due to physical restrictions, we miss out on the benefits of a well-digested meal, resulting in various other issues.
I spent years squeezing into tight pants, not because they didn’t fit but to maintain a thinner appearance. This tightness led to physical pain, lower back issues during workouts, rashes from lack of ventilation, and peak anxiety and depression. Only in retrospect do I see the negative feedback loop created by this seemingly simple act.
Now, I can’t handle clothes that are too tight, and it’s liberating. I feel more confident in my body than ever before, able to breathe, move freely, and show up as my authentic self.
In the ongoing journey to wellness, I want to shed light on this issue, exposing the physical, mental, and spiritual damage caused by this trend. I understand the pressure to conform to certain looks or dress a certain way, but succumbing to these pressures means losing our authenticity.
In the pursuit of wellness and authenticity, let go of those mean jeans, cut the seam, and wear what feels good, light, and loving.
-Lila
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